Shalowm family! Kardayah here,

Today we start on a path which I have been being led down; for about 12 years now. The place where we start today. Actually, happens to have originated on YouTube; about a year ago. But, I kept forgetting to record certain steps. Plus, recording with a phone is no easy task.

The Idea.

Now the prelude to this informational wealth that has fallen into my lap. Came illustrated in a series of what one may think of as, “Disappointments”. Huh…There’s nothing like a good old disappointment. Sexual disappointments; might I clarify? So much it made me want to scream. I could have walked away. Which is better than what I have in the past choosen to do. Which was to cheat. By the fault of my own sins. I had stepped into a pitiful cycle.

If it wasn’t too quick, it was too soft, or not a good time(mentally), or too dry, or someone was not feeling well. Maybe there was an interest issue, someone was too lazy, or not turned on(enough). Other times the other person just could not catch my drift. This then led to other discomforts, lies, disagreements, arguments, pills, embarrassments, excuses, tricks, misunderstandings, laughs, tearful nights, explanations, and mental fights. I couldn’t understand why so many things would go wrong in such a natural act.

This is where my search for Love launched me on an educational quest for extraordinary sex. It’s what had attracted me to sex anyway. The second reason why I’ve spent my whole life longing for love and marriage.

The Reason

Why not end the relationship? Why not buy some lube and let him have his way? Pop in some porn, maybe?…Ok, firstly, (I love the word firstly.) I’ve had my own battles to fight with porn. I’m still figting it. Secondly, when you love someone you fight to help them become the best version of themselves. Allowing you to exude, grow, and maintain your best you. Therefore, making You(Y’all) the best version of You(Y’all). Echad, one, in agreeance, one flesh, spiritually intertwined. Creating a solid, ordained Y’all.

We are naturally supposed to stand echad with ABBA YAH. Therefore, being awarded with echad and shâlôwm in matrimony. Our soul’s knowing this YAH given law. Yearn for this concept in perfection. Even if sometimes in our own image of perfection, but with urgency all the same.

In any relationship, we as functional living beings yearn for understanding, fulfillment, peace, and cooperation. It helps relationships to healthily grow. So, leaves with you the reasons to ask why? Can you? Will you? Can we? Or to bring up the reasons behind why you’re questioning a certain aspect(s) of Y’all’s relationship.

I’ve learned that this is why people fight in relationships. In more ways than one. For example, your spouse is beating you and you ask them why; and/or to stop. If they do. He or she will spiritually, mentally, and physically benefit from their change in behavior. Therefore, making them a better version of themselves. Making you more open to giving and receiving love. Therefore, creating a more solid, attracted, understanding and trusting Y’all.

Now there is a right and a wrong way to do all things. A way to present them, to end them, to start them, and to request them. But the response from the recipient is out of your control. Your initial approach. Along with their initial response; are the deciding factors in Y’all’s relationship’s direction.

If things go right, you’ll get a step closer to Echad with your partner and Y’all too with YAH. On the other hand, wrong or misunderstood approaches, none listening ears, and crashed responses tend to push lovers further away. Sometimes ending in more quarrels.

So I made up my mind to fight for my relationships in as many ways as possible. That is until YAH or destiny said, “That’s enough.” I have always decided to fight. I’m a fighter. It’s what I do. Especially, for a good cause. Therefore, ripping up my union was clearly not the way to go. Neither was cheating. I had to find a way to my version of extraordinary sex.

The Hunt

My next step was to research. I’ve always been big on research. I have always loved to write long essays. Even when I complained. So I applied this skill to my love and sex lives.

I’ve found an abundance of information on how to cure things from control of premature ejaculation to making us both vibrate on a level so high. It damn near pulls us up off of our feet. Like we’re both stuck in a trance; chasing a pheromone covered bee. Him dumping scents of the heaviest of love. Creating a wildly aromatic pathway. To me. Or He. Whichever.

I put in effort. Knowledgable effort. Concerning whatever situation. And you’d be blown away by how things changed so quickly. My partner was even amazed and ecstatic. We both started to be satisfied, henceforth fulfilled. I had to take a better route and this was it.

My Mission

As you all know, my quest for Love(Ahab/ahabah) has taken me to many different places. So with my testimony in heart and a strong will to heal my people. I have put together a program. It’s called, “Hebrew Marriage; Extraordinary Sex.

Hebrew Marriage; Extraordinary Sex comes in a few different sections, but today as for now. I present to you, “Get Loose With Your Spouse.”, an abundance of recipes and pointers on how to wake and shake your love life back to your twenties. Or close to it.

You’ll learn how to naturally increase stamina, sex drive, and fertility in both parties. You’ll learn to feed your body to functionally (Wickedness- disfunction) perform. Find out how food helped to lead me to working on my heart, body, and soul enough to become healthy and fateful enough to maintain a healthy marriage. Keeping me from hating my partner or becoming bitter because I was unfulfilled. Even worse, him being bitter or frustrated with me not being satisfied.

Program Incentives

  • Healthier sexual habits.
  • Awakened sex drive for both parties.
  • Less mucus build up.
  • Increased fertility.
  • Balancing of hormones for both parties.
  • More energy and stamina for both parties.
  • Fight and possibly cure erectile dysfunction.
  • Learn to have mental intercourse first.
  • Free flowing foreplay techniques.
  • Weekly quick fix. No meds Approach Emails.
  • Product give aways.

And even more.

Where do I sign up?

Signup in the CONTACT ME TAB OF THE MENU ABOVE. Title your message, “GET LOOSE”. Most of this program is free. Looking forward to hearing from you.

For now enjoy the original recipe playlist. There is so much more to come. Don’t miss a post. Todah for coming to join me. Shâlôwm and Berâkâh to you all. Shalowm!💜❤

Feel free to buy me a cup of joe. Cashtag: $KARDAYAH3205 💚💛💙

It didn’t take long for me to figure out what I wanted to do; neither be when I grew up. I was always writing my name and counting things. If there was paper, pencils, crayons, or books. I had to be there.

I’d bring home piles of old books and workbooks from school as a child. The end of the year was YAH’s gift to nerds. So my parents just let me run wild. I played school. I taught. I learned. I was shown. Now I see.

I loved to write because I could say whatever I wanted to on the paper. I could persuade the flock to truly understand. Not to get my way at all times, but to simply give understanding. Writing invitingly made it easier to fulfill this gut wrenching urge that I had, “to tell you something”.

At times of importance, people didn’t really stop to listen to me as I grew up. I always got: talk with some sense girl, stop lying, don’t mind her she’s slow, my words and thoughts were shunned by both young and old. Todah to those who took the time to listen to the genius inside. HalleluYAH!

I was told to use some “common sense”. I was embarrassed, a lot. So I went along with “common sense”, which as I have grown has become an exact replica of, “most popular choice/spoken sense”. Being that in a heaping amount of my experiences; the common sense approach or answer was not only the wrong answer. But it also was not the only answer; nor the first. I have realized that the impatient person, whom I was addressing, just had a deafening ignorance forcing them to over look me.

The second thing that I noticed was that I am attracted to numbers like bees to honey. They comfort me. I remember, I’d get mad or be very upset so I would write the alphabet, linked to numbers, up to as far as i could bare. Kinda like abcdef………1234567891011……..999. Then I’d go through and pair them together by triples.

My mama taught it to me. She has her own version of this game; from which I modeled my activity. She would go through the magazines and other books crossing out letters. Spelling things. Creating. So I started to do the same. Red, Mrs. Jackson, a silent mastermind; YAH’s gift to me. Yellow. How grateful I am. HallelluYAH!

The last and most intriguingly terrifying thing that I discovered very early on; is that I could sing. I loved to sing. I would almost explode if I didn’t sing. And EVERYONE who ever truly had a good listen; loved to hear.

When I sing, Kardayah becomes the whole of me. My Being comes alive inside of me. Todah YAH for Your Glory. HalleluYah! Yet, I’d never been so afraid to show the full potential of a gift given to me by YAH. See, this one though, has the power to persuade a nation. As long as I allow YAH to guide me. So HE is and so here we are.

Anyhow, these became my favorite pass times. Everyone said write and I, not recognizing the voice of Yahawasha’; decided not to do so. By the way procrastination will kill your very being. If you don’t ask YAH to help you get it under control and consciously work to stop following the same patterns.

Trust me. Your life starts to feel like it’s ending before it begins. I had so much fear and doubt. Anxiety attacks had even started to paralyze me entire body from head to toes.

I almost passed up on my future. I almost quit. I was, “chasing a dream that I hadn’t dreamed yet”. (Thanks Mali Music, for that amazing expression.) Weirdly, I had not moved my feet to catch up with my speeding scattered mind.


So now that I’m putting it all together, ABBA has spoken; is speaking louder and clearer than ever. HIS truth has lead me here. I’m no longer wondering why I’m so different. Why I obtain so much information in such a small time frame. Or what the number thing is all about.

YAH’s answers were plain; they still yet remain the same. He gave me a mission that HE had submitted into my Papa’s DNA from the time that HE first thought of me. YAH revealed this to me. While all along, my angels started to speak to me so loudly; that it seemed they were throwing triple numbers into my face. I started to eagerly learn to pay attention. Now I have my own business. Once YAH opened this door for me. I knew what my next step needed to be.

I’m no longer under mental strain; worrying about how I’m gonna start my blog. I’m much better at starting conversations. Meaningful expressions are my preference. The ABBA is not a fan of profane and/or vain babblings. (2 Tim. 2:16) So we’ll avoid these things to the best of my ability.

Also, I’m no longer pondering over whether or not my topic is good enough. YAH speaks to me, and I try to speak to you. I just sit down with pen and paper. Then allow the Ruach to sort it out from there. Then I type it up; the way that it is revealed to me.

While HE was teaching me to follow my life path. I have been taught how to create and manifest what’s best for me. YAH has revealed to me my True Being. I am now a Country Soul artist, spiritual life coach, business owner, mother, wife, and an author.

Every last one of my dreams have come true. Yet, this is only the beginning. I have manifested a successful career. Thanks to YAH. I’ve been taught and achieved the manifestation of two dream homes so far. My books and music touch souls everyday. I’m manifesting a magically exhilarating; fulfillingly strenuous and blissfully rewarding life.

Todah family, for coming to sit, read, laugh, or just have a listen. I welcome you all to KARDAYAH’s Soul.

There are no such things as mistakes. Everything happens for you; not to you. (Romans 8:28) You have a purpose for being here. For now enjoy your taste of Grace. Shalom family!

Enjoy Even More Grace.

Feel free to buy me a cup of tea. Todah for all of the already donated blessings.💚 CASHTAG: $KARDAYAH3205

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